the behaviour that I can regulary see is as following:
in admin>images, you can see a default order for pictures in albums (I choose `date`).
for each album, you can overwrite this image ordering, by setting a value in sort `sort images by` (starting with the default value `*gallery image sort order`)
if you go on `image order` tab, you can change the order of your pictures, and `sort images by` value for this album will be set to `manual`.
whatever order you choose, it is avaliable on front end and back end.