Actually 2 things...I like to have a "page" as the homepage rather than the gallery - I can do this in theme options then selecting my unpublished page. No problem...BUT...
1. I'd like that page to still show in my menu
2. Sometimes I don't want every page to show in my menu
So I guess in summary, perhaps a checkbox under "Locked for Changes" saying "Hide from Menu" - even on un-plublished pages. This way we can set exactly what pages we want to display whether they are published or not...By default they'd show - checking the box hides them...
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Note that if you mix for example pages and albums in a menu, you have to modify your theme to use some of its functions. For example the standard breadcrumb functions will be wrong if you have an album as a sub item of a Zenpage page.