Not exactly offended actually but others might. Anyway, best try what sbillard suggested and we'll see. It is certainly generally working.

Btw, the best to give us a link to a site you don't want to be public is to put it onto your profile. Only admins/moderators can see that.

I changed the themes so many times and it didn't work, and now it does.. but on zpfocus it does not,

are there any common settings I could've changed to screw it up? the register.php and regiser_user_plugin look ok.

{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:27:54 GMT} Zenphoto v1.4.3.1[10590]
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: zpfocus_social in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/image.php on line 5
include called
from index.php [92]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:28:45 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: ssalbum in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/inc-sidebar.php on line 9
include called
from include (404.php [2])
from index.php [109]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:28:50 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: ssalbum in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/inc-sidebar.php on line 9
include called
from include (register.php [2])
from index.php [92]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:29:08 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: ssalbum in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/inc-sidebar.php on line 9
include called
from include (register.php [2])
from index.php [92]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:33:51 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: ssalbum in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/inc-sidebar.php on line 9
include called
from include (gallery.php [2])
from include (index.php [7])
from index.php [92]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:33:51 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: zpfocus_social in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/gallery.php on line 5
include called
from include (index.php [7])
from index.php [92]
{Thu, 16 Aug 2012 18:35:17 GMT}
Backtrace: NOTICE: Undefined variable: zpfocus_social in /home/content/19/9671819/html/themes/zpfocus/image.php on line 5
include called
from index.php [92]

my logs have reduced after some fiddling, I believe this error is related to inc-sidebar?

Seems so but that that you should ask the theme's author. Gjr reads here but also has his own support forum for his themes.